15 years ago today I made the best decision of my life and married the most amazing man ever!
I'm sure most of you are familiar with our "history" but I kind of want to reminisce and take a quick trip down memory lane for those of you who aren't.
Chet and I both went to Bingham but he was older than I so we were never there at the same time. However, I knew Cody and that's where it, sort of, all began. Even though Cody can't take the credit for introducing us completely, it was at his farewell that I first saw Chet. I was immediately attracted to him but quickly learned that he had a girlfriend. Now, I was not one to interfere with that kind of stuff and be a "relationship wrecker"

Reasons I love Chet:
~He is so funny. He has such a great sense of humor...even though he knows it. He always makes me laugh. When I first started going over to his house (in the beginning) he seemed so shy and quiet. But the night we went to the fair I saw a whole different side of him and it was the funnest date I had ever been on. He had me laughing all night long! What's even funnier is when he tries too hard to be funny and it really isn't as funny as he seems to think it is. It's fun to see him get a kick out of it anyway :)
~He is ever the gentleman and still opens doors for me. This is something he has always done from day one and still does to this day. After having so many kids I don't often get the car door opened for me when we are getting out b/c we are both trying to get kids out of the car but he will ALWAYS open them for me when going into a building or getting IN the car.
~He has the most AMAZING dimples! I have to admit that it was one of the biggest things that attracted me to him in the first place...I am a sucker for great dimples! He also has great brown eyes with the eyelashes, great arms and chest...okay, so I find everything about him is just total HOTNESS and he still makes my heart flutter just looking at him.
~He honors his priesthood and magnifies all of his callings. I cannot explain how important these things are to me. It is such a comfort to know that he is worthy to perform those blessings and ordinances that our family needs.
~He is loyal and trustworthy. You can count on him for anything. I know that I can tell him a secret and it will not go beyond us. He will not betray anybody for any reason and I love him for that quality.
~He always puts others before himself. Sometimes I get a little selfish and can't understand why he does some things for other people especially when they never do the same in return. But he is always thinking of others and doing what he can to help them or just show that he cares. He is a great example of what it means to serve others.
~He is non judgmental. I have really had to take a lesson from him in this regard. He will always try to give someone the benefit of the doubt and look at things with an open mind. He has strong feelings on certain subjects but will still try and not judge others. He has a very forgiving heart.
~We are always on the same wave length. From day one we were always thinking the same things. We can be talking about something, or not and just start a new conversation, and one of us will start saying the same thing the other was just thinking. Sometimes we'll even start saying it at the same time and it can be something that was never even talked about before. It's almost freaky.
~He is my best friend and more. I can tell him anything. We have no secrets and I love it that way. He is always there to pick me up when I am down or when I'm having some major drama in my life. When something goes wrong he is the first person I want to talk to. I can be strong until I hear his voice and then I just have my breakdown...haha. Poor guy!
~He is an incredible Daddy! He is so good to the kids. He plays and wrestles with them and is a horrible tease. (that can be annoying at times) He is stern when he needs to be but will also take time to lay and cuddle with them. They love and adore him so much just as he does them.
~He is so smart. Sometimes he's "too" smart for his own good :) I've never known a person to know so many lyrics to songs as well as the artist and he can watch a movie once and remember a line from it months or years later...haha. But he is good with numbers and many other things. He will argue this but it's true.
~I love the way he shows so much love and respect for his parents. One thing that has always impressed me is that he STILL gives his dad a hug AND a kiss. How many grown men do you know that will KISS their dad?
~He is so fun to be with. Even if we are doing nothing I enjoy just "being" with him. From sitting home watching TV to cruising the Caribbean we have a great time together. Some women can't wait for their husband's to go back to work after they take a few days off, but I love having him around.
There are many other reasons why I love him so much but this post would never end if I were to list them all. I am just so grateful for these last 15 years of my life and look forward to many more with him. I am so proud to be his wife and I could not have chosen a better person to spend the rest of my life with and all of eternity...I just hope he will keep me that long :)
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY BABE... I LOVE YOU!!!
K, my turn. This won't be as long because I just got back from the hospital where Kim gave me the best anniversary present I could have every got. She told me to sign in and post this draft she had already wrote, so no, I didn't write all the stuff above. haha
I thought Kim was the most beautiful thing I'd ever seen the first time I saw her. I was dating somebody else at the time, but it only took one group outing to realize what I really wanted.
Kim could have any guy she wanted, and probably settled for lesser in me. No probably about that one! She has ever reason to be high on herself, but she is as sweet and humble on the inside as she is pretty on the outside. I feel like I got the better end in this deal by far!
She is a fantastic Mom. She thinks of things that need to be done and goes the extra step with our kids, where I would not have a clue.
She doesn't back down. If I am arguing about something, if she doesn't agree, she doesn't just agree with me and back down. (annoying at times yes) She keeps me in check.
She is very close to the Lord. I've always loved that about her. She has had some struggles in her young life that I don't know how I would have got through. But she put her trust where it should be and has got through them for the better I believe.
I love showing her off. I know I married well over my head and love showing people what I got. When they talk about that old wives tale about the harder you work on your mission, the better looking your wife will be? Well I knew I worked my tail off, but man, I obviously worked harder than I imagined. :)
It's been a great 15 years, and we now have 5 beautiful kids to show for our years together. I am so happy I found her!
Love you hon, and happy anniversary.